how the FUCK is it 1 fucking 30 fuck goodbye
okay so basically my new favorite band is five finger death punch. don’t ask me trivia cuz like c’mon yo it’s been like 20 minutes for me
Okay, this is actually what you do if you’re being sexually harassed in any kind of public space. Draw attention to it, preferably pull away and let EVERYONE know that someone is touching you. This will not only get him to get off you but he’ll definitely think about this situation next time he wants to do something like this.
Spreading the word.
My mom and I were talking about this today after hearing about a woman who was molested on a plane who said nothing until she was picked up at the airport by her parents. My mom looked at me and asked what I would do in that situation and I looked her dead in the eye and I told her “it would take me .02 seconds to realize what was going on and yell angrily, and then I would be straight on to bitch slapping him so hard he wouldn’t be able to see the punch I’d throw with the opposite hand”.
She nodded and accepted my salty language like a seasoned sailor.
I’ve had experience with this before, in Prague a group of five girls and I were followed by three men at night. After a while they started yelling at us, the most common being “how much?” Meaning how much we “cost” as prostitutes. Seeing as they weren’t going to stop, I turned on my heel, faced them (which surprised them), spat at their feet and responded with “You couldn’t afford me.” This prompted the other girls to start yelling back at them as well, starting with our spitfire Czech friend to start slinging curses in Czech as she and the rest of the girls came up beside me. Needless to say the men backed off and pretty much fled. They weren’t expecting a fight. It empowered me and encouraged the rest of the girls to yell back too.
I’ve heard that a lot of people don’t know what to do in this situation because they’ve been taught all their lives to be polite and non-aggressive. Keep your heads down or whatever.
Keep in mind that studies have shown that rapists look for victims who won’t fight back.
Remember that nobody has the right to touch you without your consent or harass you, and you have all the right to make the biggest fuss about it that you can possibly make.
Get angry. Be in command.
you have no idea how much you mean to me. you say it hurts and you say i’d be better off. you say there’s other girls. you say they’ll make me happy. but no. they won’t. you are special. everything about you i love. your strengths. your weaknesses. your flaws. your beauty. everything. i love everything about you. and no. there’s nothing you can say to convince me otherwise. i love you. and you love me. and shouldnt that be enough. i don’t want anyone else. i want you. i will do anything to change things so we both can be together and happy. i love you more than anything and im not ready to let you go. today has been the most emotional day of my life. and i know i have like a fucking week left until either we work this out or i die inside. i love you. i know we can do this.
remember how you told me not to think about how much i miss you because it makes me sad? well fuck. take your own advice. i miss the fuck out of you and it drives me insane. but i keep my fucking head up because i know it’s worth it. i know you’re worth it. you are so, so special to me and fuck i don’t care how long it takes us to be together. i want to be with you. i want to have a life with you. i know it hurts right now. but do as i do. be stronger. don’t think about that aspect. think of the good things and instead of complaining about things not working the way you want them to fucking bring them up so we can talk about them and fix them.
also, hey. i wanted to come over and see you twice already since we turned 18. both times that could have happened. but you had a deadline. i know shit comes up but you knew about that deadline and could have taken care of it beforehand. so like. c’mon. i’m not blaming you but you can’t say that shit won’t work if you’re not willing to try.
i love you. and this whole situation has me up and down every five minutes. please. i love you. don’t do this to me. i’m not ready to let you go. it won’t be long, sweetheart. i love you.
OH NO THE IMPENDING THREAT OF ACCESSIBILITY
SAVING PEOPLE FROM PANIC ATTACKS???? WHAT EVER WILL WE DO???? Think of the CHILDREN
Trigger warnings are literally a two scone blarb of “This might upset some one because xyz” y are ppl so annoyed?
why are people upset about this? like they are literally the same things as disclaimers and content ratings. like disclaimer: this shit can fuck you up cuz it contains XYZ please leave now if this shit fucks you up. like same thing
Apparently you can’t have problems if you’re not a starving African child.
Apparently you can’t have problems if your parents are still together.
Apparently you can’t have problems if you’re a white girl
or if you’re a heterosexual male
Apparently you can’t have problems if you get good grades.
Apparently you can’t have problems unless someone else justifies them.